Note: If you’ve not done so, please read Part III: Debunking TERF Essentialism, as this piece draws upon the debunked TERF ad naturam essentialism concepts – the “essence” of what makes one male or female – commonly found within TERF rhetoric.
Chivalry culture is the flip-side of chauvinism and together they are part of the same rape culture coin. Promoting the idea that some people are inherently submissive because female-essence – and therefore need some form of cloistered safekeeping – and that some people are inherently dominant because male-essence – and are in need of institutionalized restraint – is patriarchy. Moreover, it is a standard TERFs explicitly perpetuate.
The TERF chivalry culture sales pitch goes something like this: Since only and all naturally male-essenced people are programmed to rape since birth, all naturally female-essenced people require cloistered safekeeping from naturally male-essenced people. This means that Dyke marches, certain music festivals and emergency services should exclude trans women because they are naturally male-essenced and are therefore programmed to rape. The cultural phenomenon of rape is simplified so that rape is synonymous with male and male, of course, is synonymous with trans women.
TERFs are to rape culture what FOX News is to terrorism. Rape, like terrorism, is very real and damnably horrific. While it is important to educate about these horrors, some organizations use these horrors to perpetuate certain agendas. FOX News uses terrorism to scare people into becoming political right wingers and TERFs use rape to scare “naturally female-essenced” people into becoming political lesbians.
“When a woman reaches orgasm with a man she is only collaborating with the patriarchal system, eroticizing her own oppression.” – Sheila Jeffreys, PhD
Bullshit. Rape culture isn’t about a some sexed essence having an inherent dominant or submissive innateness; it is about perpetuating harmful strategies for contextualizing power… You know, just like Sheila Jeffreys did in the above quote.
Rape culture is more complex than some sexed essence. When we look at power systems built on domination and submission, what do they produce? The National Survey of Youth in Custody report said, “Among the estimated 1,390 youth who reported victimization by staff, 89.1% were male [inmates] reporting sexual activity with female staff, and 3.0% were males reporting sexual activity with both male and female staff.”
What are we to make of this published data? Do children require some form of cloistered safekeeping from female-essence people? Are these female-essence people child rapists because child rape has something inherently to do with being female, or is this behavior about how a specific culture contextualizes power and how that plays out upon subordinate classes? When naturally female-essenced people perceive themselves privileged to hold, wield and use power upon subordinates – within the context of a cultural system – they rape; moreover, they are willing to even rape caged children.
When it comes down to it, TERFs merely pimp out the real suffering rape victims. They debase the lived trauma of rape for its power as a mere discursive tool. In short, TERFs use rape.
In TERF rhetoric, rape is used to motivate female-essenced people to view all trans women as likely rapists. Worse, in their gleeful willingness to make the pain and trauma of rape and physical abuse about trans woman, their dogma helps hide the rape and domestic violence (DV) issues within the lesbian community community itself.
The reality is that anywhere from around a quarter to almost half of lesbians experience DV and rape in lesbian relationships. Furthermore, the physical abuse rates of heterosexual and lesbian couples aren’t all that different. In fact, this secrete is referred to as “the second closet.”
All transsexuals rape women’s bodies by reducing the real female form to an artifact, appropriating this body for themselves… Transsexuals merely cut off the most obvious means of invading women, so that they seem non-invasive. – Janice Raymond, PhD, The Transsexual Empire, The Making of the Shemale, p 104
When people like the award-winning TERF journalist Victoria Brownworth, assert, “Michigan isn’t about transphobia–it’s about safe space for lesbians,” such claims ring hollow when the reality is that the MWMF isn’t offering workshops for addressing with the violence within its own community. It rings hollow when TERFs don’t write about it, talk about it or educate about it. Such claims have little meaning when the problem of rape and abuse is so erased that victims call it “the second closet.”
TERFs want you to associate the pain of rape with trans women. They manipulate real trauma and use its pain to discriminate against a community of rape and rape-affected survivors. While around one in every two trans women are rape victims, TERFs use rape to stigmatize trans women as rapists. Moreover, they use rape to sell feminism on their own brand of chivalry culture.
Some TERFs bandy about the slogan “name the problem: male violence,” oblivious to their own hypocrisy. The name of the problem is rape culture and TERFs are part of the problem.
Guide to the Sexing the Body is Gender Series
- Introduction: 8/11/14
- Contextualizing the Body: 8/12/14
- Debunking TERF Essentialism: 8/13/14
- TERFs Selling Women into Rape Culture: 8/14/14
- Critical of “Gender Critical”: 8/15/14
- TERFism as an Obsessive Sadistic Fetish: 8/16/14
- TERF Reflections: 8/17/14
NOTES: Consider the way in which a TERF privileged herself in getting a trans youth to expose their genitals to her and how the TERF community endorsed this behavior.  Consider the following peer reviewed findings:
- A study of 113 lesbians reported that 41% said they had been abused in one or more relationships: And Justice for All?…The Social Context of Legal Responses to Abuse in Lesbian Relationship, Canadian Journal of Women and the Law, vol 7, 1994, p 420
- In a survey of 350 lesbians (75% of whom had been in a previous relationship with a man) “rates of verbal, physical, and sexual abuse were all significantly higher in their prior lesbian relationships than in their prior heterosexual relationships: 56.8% had been sexually victimized by a female, 45% had experienced physical aggression, and 64.5% experienced physical/emotional aggression.” Patriarchy and Wife Assault: The Ecological Fallacy, Violence and Victims, vol 9, no 2, 1994, pp 167-178
- “Based upon the responses of 284 lesbians to a questionnaire, it was found that lesbian violence is not a rare phenomenon. “ Journal of Interpersonal Violence, vol 9, no 4 , pp 469-492
- In a 2000 study, 55% of lesbians reported physical violence in their relationships, 14% reported sexual abuse, and 84% reported emotional abuse: A Descriptive Analysis of same-Sex Relationship Violence for a Diverse Sample, Journal of Family Violence, vol 13, pp 281-293
- 50%: Courvant, D., & Cook-Daniels, L., 1998. Transgender and intersex survivors of domestic violence: Defining terms, barriers and responsibilities
- 59%: Clements, K. SF Department of Public Health, Department of Public Health. (1999). The transgender community health project: Descriptive results. San Francisco: San Francisco.
- 54%: Kenagy, G. (2005). The health and social service needs of transgender people in Philadelphia. International Journal of Transgenderism, 8(2/3), 45-56. doi: 10.1300/J485v08n02_05
- 46%: Kenagy, G., & Bostwick, W. (2005). The health and social service needs of transgender people in Chicago. International Journal of Transgenderism, 8(2/3), 57-66. doi: 10.1300/J485v08n02_06