this comment: “If you are looking for the right kind of male mind to match your feminine one, then seek open minded bull dyke lesbians.” – you know, people are attracted to different types. however i don’t know that i’d suggest that a bull dyke lesbian necessarily has a “male” mind, not would i suggest that all trans women have “feminine” minds. i suppose it depends on how you define those terms.

additionally, this statement: “males seek females at the end of it all as either sex toys or mothers, so keep your options as open as possible, for companionship is not a matter of sex alone, it is a matter of personality and goals in life” is just outright wrong, and even offensive. my husband, a male, doesn’t see me as a sex toy or his mother, and we have a wonderful relationship, and share companionship, and have done so for the past 6 years. with no end in sight. sweeping generalizations suck, and are often wrong.

I know someone from way back who dabbled as an inadvertent and unaware government-social sponsored/interred experiment-inmate, 2 decades later he/she was glad nothing irreversible was chosen, saying something like ‘SRS is shortsighted when INBETWEEN is the most intriguing way to live.’

Hope Kim won’t regret her choice, it’s no longer reversible until 1-2 decades later when growing organs is common.

Desire to SRS is a mental block or self challenging attitude one gets into, or is dared into by others. If you are looking for the right kind of male mind to match your feminine one, then seek open minded bull dyke lesbians. The equipment is not the most critical thing, though presentation is important, but more important is the mind and the mental blocks towards others who you’d like to be ‘loved’ by and the reasons for that.

Inbetween is so much naughtier depending on the setting and society, and remember, males seek females at the end of it all as either sex toys or mothers, so keep your options as open as possible, for companionship is not a matter of sex alone, it is a matter of personality and goals in life.

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in simple terms, you at 16, in perfect health, as a young, white, normative female, had only music and driving cars as your biggest concern. people like your son, and people like kim and myself, experience much larger issues than cars and music. we may not be mature in every area, but those aspects that impact our lives, or quality of life, can certainly be quite clear at a young age.

i understand you may not feel you are being judgmental, but i think if you re-read your comments with a more objective or empathetic eye, you may see my point of view. if you can’t possibly understand the complexity of this case, i would respectfully request you defer to those of us who do understand.

regarding my other comments about shemales and wannabes, those were directed to the media in general, and not at you specifically. i apologize if i positioned those comments in a way that directed my frustration at you.