Comments on: sticks and stones… http://transadvocate.com/nexy/2008/04/26/sticks-and-stones/ Thu, 04 Dec 2008 18:21:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: christine http://transadvocate.com/nexy/2008/04/26/sticks-and-stones/#comment-1166 christine Mon, 28 Apr 2008 10:38:06 +0000 http://transadvocate.com/nexy/?p=213#comment-1166 Yep. Gut up and call them whatever they want. Ugh. Yep. Gut up and call them whatever they want. Ugh.

]]> By: nexy http://transadvocate.com/nexy/2008/04/26/sticks-and-stones/#comment-1157 nexy Sun, 27 Apr 2008 16:31:37 +0000 http://transadvocate.com/nexy/?p=213#comment-1157 my ex still sends me correspondance using my first initial, my maiden name, and my married last name. she refuses to even write out my legal first name, and refuses to no longer use my maiden name. people believe that names have power, and weild them accordingly. i had thought to do the same to her, but i like to think i'm a better person than that. my ex still sends me correspondance using my first initial, my maiden name, and my married last name. she refuses to even write out my legal first name, and refuses to no longer use my maiden name.

people believe that names have power, and weild them accordingly. i had thought to do the same to her, but i like to think i’m a better person than that.

]]> By: christine http://transadvocate.com/nexy/2008/04/26/sticks-and-stones/#comment-1156 christine Sun, 27 Apr 2008 11:03:45 +0000 http://transadvocate.com/nexy/?p=213#comment-1156 Not that this is in the same league, but... When I had been married about 3 years, my mother sent me a check. Written to my maiden name. I was overseas at the time, and of course had nothing with me that could prove that was who I had ever been. But what bothered me was that it was obvious she was trying to turn back time and erase my husband. I wrote her a SCORCHING letter... Not that this is in the same league, but…

When I had been married about 3 years, my mother sent me a check. Written to my maiden name. I was overseas at the time, and of course had nothing with me that could prove that was who I had ever been. But what bothered me was that it was obvious she was trying to turn back time and erase my husband.

I wrote her a SCORCHING letter…

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